i swear that every relationship undergoes cross fire and ends up very likely in just two given options - whether compromise or shutdown the relationship.

well, that all depends on both parties.

as normal people, me and my beau have fights. we argue on some little things to big ones and eventually would find the middle ground to resolve the issue (we are that type!).

but i don't know what's up recently, i guess we just wanna' jive with the season, that we have this on-and-off misunderstanding - not really leading us to an outrageous confrontation but this is pretty unusual for us. we may had a lot of disputes before but i don't think they were like this, like what we are having now - multiple disagreements within two hours ( i mean like three to five different quarrels, well that's a lot!). of course those weren't intentional, who would like to argue anyway?! it just happened. our minds now don't go in the same pathway, with the same wavelength. i'd say to be fair, we both are very sensitive to everything around us that we're getting hot-tempered and everything and really really don't like this situation! but on a brighter side, every after falling-out, in fairness we can manage to be hassle free again. but then again, it's on-and-off. fight in 5mins, be okay for 15mins, then the cycle continues. grrrrr!

i just hope bebe we can settle this and be back to what we used to have - you know that - less arguments, less fights. 'coz i know and you know that this wouldn't do any good to us, to our relationship. this may help us figure out how strongly bonded we are now but what if one of us can't hold on? i'm not saying it's you nor me coz that remains a question. just don't wanna' lose you because I LOVE YOU. i know we can do this and surpass all these unwise things.

and one thing, i would just wanna say SORRY for hurting you during our quarrels. i meant no harm indeed. but if we have fights in the future since it's expected to have one for we're bound to be imperfect, let's not forget to say sorry . . . and i love you . . . all the way!